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Does Your Body Define Your Self-Worth?

Do you feel self-conscious when you think about your body or see your reflection in the mirror? Have you noticed that how you feel about your body impacts how you feel about yourself, your mood, how you socialize, or how you treat your body? Are you preoccupied with wanting to change the shape of your body or improve your appearance? Do thoughts of dieting, exercise, or weight loss take over your day?

Beauty is culturally defined, and we are told what it means to be beautiful through what we see and hear on the media, from our family and friends, and from society in general. These messages can be harmful, as they put pressure on you to meet an idealistic and unrealistic standard of beauty. How you feel about the shape of your body can also impact how comfortable you feel in your own skin. We all have unique bodies based on our genetics, culture, and lifestyle choices. Having a healthy perception of beauty means accepting and appreciating our differences.

Research shows that over 50% of American girls are unhappy with their bodies. This increases to almost 80% by the time they are teenagers, and by the age of 60, approximately 30% of women report being self-conscious and unhappy with their bodies. Body image affects men as well, and research indicates that 20-40% of men are unhappy with their bodies.

Negative body image is associated with low self-worth, low self-confidence, depression, isolation, preoccupation with dieting, exercise and/or weight loss, as well as an increased risk of developing an eating disorder.

Many factors can put a person at risk for developing an eating disorder, such as having a relative with an unhealthy relationship with food or mental health issues, tendency towards dieting, overexercising, and type 1 diabetes. Societal pressures like weight stigma, bullying, media portrayals of the ideal body, isolation, and trauma are also predisposing factors, as well as psychological influences such as perfectionism, anxiety, and inflexibility. But the biggest and best-known contributor to developing an eating disorder is body image dissatisfaction.

Eating disorders are multi-dimensional and can have harmful effects on a person’s emotional and physical well-being. The health consequences of eating disorders include damage to many of the body’s systems, including the cardiovascular and gastrointestinal system. Eating disorders can cause neurological issues that lead to things such as food obsession, sleep issues, numbness in the extremities, seizures, muscle cramps, or fainting. Poor or inadequate nutrition can also cause hormonal imbalances and a decrease in sex hormones, which may result in loss of menstruation as well as bone loss.

The risks that come with an eating disorder are as serious as death due to starvation, suicide, or co-occurring substance abuse. In fact, research shows that people struggling with anorexia have a 6x increase in mortality compared to their heathy peers. However, recovery is possible with the help of psychotherapy. If you or one of your loved ones are experiencing the harmful effects of body image issues or suffering from an eating disorder, there is hope. The American Psychological Association believes that with the help of psychotherapy, freedom from eating disorders and body image issues is possible.

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How Body Image Therapy Can Help You or Someone You Love

Psychotherapy has proven to be helpful for body image issues and eating disorder recovery. At Evergreen Therapy, we believe that every individual is unique, and we collaborate with you to create a treatment approach that fits your needs and supports your healing. 

Body Image Therapy can help you improve your body image and develop a healthy relationship with food and exercise. It is possible to cultivate a positive body image, which means accepting, appreciating, and respecting your body. These mindsets are connected to self-acceptance, self-esteem, and healthy lifestyle choices. Body Image Therapy leads you to feel comfortable and confident in your body.

We use a variety of approaches to treat body image issues and eating disorders:

Compassion Focused Therapy helps you cultivate self-compassion, which leads to increased body satisfaction, body acceptance, body appreciation, and self-worth. Happiness, enhanced life satisfaction, higher self-confidence, greater well-being and physical health are also connected with self-compassion. Elements of this therapeutic approach involve nurturing self-kindness, recognizing that there is no ideal definition of beauty or standard of perfection, and becoming more mindful and less judgmental of your thoughts and feelings. Through Compassion Focused Therapy, you will learn to treat yourself and your body with the same loving kindness that you give to your loved ones.

Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) helps you handle your emotions and thoughts in a healthy, non-reactive way. DBT teaches you skills that can be integrated into everyday life. Emotion regulation skills are used to gain control over your emotions. Distress tolerance skills can be used in the moment when feeling reactive or triggered, so you can come back to baseline and lower the intensity of what you are experiencing. Interpersonal skills enhance your relationships and your way of communicating with others. Mindfulness skills bring you into the present moment so that you aren’t ruminating about the past or anxiously wondering about the future. These skillsets can help you regulate your emotions when you’re feeling unhappy about your body. They can also help you develop self-acceptance, learn to take care better care of yourself, and alleviate self-consciousness or shame that you may feel about your body.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps you identify how distorted patterns of thinking can influence your body image and lead to unhelpful or harmful behaviors, including those associated with eating disorders. The CBT therapy process involves identifying these patterns and working to interrupt, replace, and transform them. The skills you gain through CBT can help you become more aware of your thoughts, emotions and behaviors, thereby improving your ability to problem-solve and cope with difficult situations. This therapy approach for body image issues is also associated with increased self-confidence.

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Ready to Get Started?

To learn more about Body Image therapy at Evergreen Therapy, call us at 305-814-4863 to get connected with one of our expert therapists. We offer a complimentary virtual consultation to answer your questions before you decide to get started. 

Our virtual therapy platform is designed to give you quick and easy access to your therapist from the comfort of your own home. Living with anxiety and stress is hard, but finding a great therapist shouldn’t be. We are here to help!

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Whether you’re struggling with feelings of unworthiness, battling imposter syndrome at work, or engaging in unhelpful patterns of behavior in your life or relationships, therapy can help you experience real and lasting breakthroughs. By examining the limiting core beliefs at the root of your thought process and behavior patterns, we can help you carve new pathways toward greater self-confidence, deeper connection, and true freedom.

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Your mental health challenges don’t have to be a life sentence. At Evergreen Therapy, we take a holistic approach to addressing the common and complex experiences of depression and anxiety. Our therapists are trained to support you in developing valuable insights and understandings. Working with your own unique experience, we help you build a toolbox of effective techniques and perspectives that will help you move through life feeling more grounded, hopeful, and free.

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All the therapists at Evergreen Therapy have earned degrees from accredited universities and hold the proper credentials to offer therapy services at the highest standard. We pride ourselves on our competence and professionalism, as well as on our commitment to delivering high-quality care with genuineness, warmth, and compassion.

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At Evergreen Therapy, your privacy, confidentiality, and comfort are of the utmost importance to us. That’s why we use the safest, most secure, most user-friendly virtual platform to house your information and host your virtual therapy sessions. In each of your 60-minute therapy sessions, you’ll connect one-on-one with your therapist in the video platform, resting assured that the privacy and security features of our technology will keep your sessions fully confidential.

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Once you decide to take the next step with Evergreen Therapy, you’ll get access to your potential therapist’s calendar, where you can book a consultation session on a day and time that works for you. This consultation, which takes place in the video platform we use for therapy sessions, will be a 15-minute opportunity to meet with the therapist, share your goals and intentions for therapy, and ask any questions you might have about the process. This consultation call is completely free of charge.